Always stay in control when it
comes to how and when you share information. Take things slowly and share more
information when you feel comfortable doing so. It is impossible to get back
information once you have given it away.
Be careful
when accessing your account from a public or shared computer so that others
can't view or record your password or personal information. Be
wary of opening email attachments from someone you have only just met. Ensure
that you keep your internet security software up to date.
Stop communicating with anyone
who attempts to pressure you into providing your personal or financial
information or who seems to be trying to trick you into providing it. If this
happens contact the service provider immediately to not only protect yourself
but other users too. Remember that overtly sexual, provocative or
controversial chat could attract the wrong kind of attention.
Get to know people, take your
time and trust your instincts. Act with caution and learn more about someone
before contacting him or her outside of the website. Chat so you can get to
know people in a safer and controlled way. Websites do it to protect you, not
to make money. Use website platform and the added security it gives.
There is a limit to an online
matrimonial provider’s ability to check the backgrounds of users and verify
the information they provide. They cannot do a check on every user for any criminal
activities. And a person can become a problem without having a record.
Therefore, don't get a false sense of security because you're on a website; do
your own research to learn more about someone and make informed decisions
before you decide to meet. Check to see if the person you're interested in is
on other social networking sites, do a web search to see if there are other
records of the person online, and if possible, use image search to check the
profile photos.
There is no reason for anyone
to ask you for money or your financial information, whatever sad story they tell
you. Always keep your bank and account information private. Stop all contact
immediately and report the matter to the website. Trust your instincts and
immediately stop communicating with anyone who makes you feel uncomfortable.
Never feel embarrassed to report a problem to the website service provider. You
are helping them and other users.
If you suspect that someone,
you are talking to may be a scammer, stop your communications and immediately
report him/ her. You should never feel ashamed to report someone. Don’t be
afraid to ask a friend or relative. If you start to commit to a relationship
online, If a person starts to feel strange and especially if he/her wants money.
You might ask a friend or relative if you are not at a point where you think
there is something to report.